“Sweet words are not always true. True words are not always sweet. But no matter what words can say, actions will always tell the truth”. Good day to you sir, I am Melmar B. Bustamante a 4^{th year}  Bs Criminology Students, 21 years of age and also current student assistant of Cor jesu Collge. I currently living at lopez jaina st. Digos city.

                Why do I made a blogger? Its blogger me as a Student?

This questions  was answer by this. Blooger  is a discussion or informational site published on the World Wide Web and consisting of discrete entries ("posts") typically displayed in reverse chronological order (the most recent post appears first). It help also that has the ability to write any poem articles and more. Blogger is not just familiar to everyone specially here in the phippines specially in the lower level of the society, there are just familiar in facebook social media, but in the elite or the educators blogger is very common. The best example that I impart hand outs given by the teacher for the students in any board exams or others. Also in online studys in masters blogger could be the way of there communications any informations exams, quizzes, and any handouts for their studies. I created this blog not for academic compliance but to learn more about in the google site and have an account of it. Blogger is not only for text but could be also in pictures you may post. Creation of my blogger is somewhat new life and new generation of exploring the reality because for some people has no blogger and also I am happy to have it because of the additional social media relation to others. “Blogger is life, past, present and for the future”.

20 provoking questions for blog
          

1. If you could make 30 second speech to the entire world, what would you say?

               A pleasant day for all of the continent, people and tribes of this world. Every people has the right to speech, so, I am here to say that the world is going to face  biggest war against the religion together with willingness to be superior. The religion that always making wars and conflict with the beliefs are the muslims and the Christians. Islams are believe there is only one God and that is “allah” the superior  being , the creator and the savior. While Christians are believe that the Jesus Christ is the savior, the provider, the giver of life and the way of life going to the kingdom of God the father. Mindanao “the land of promise” according to Yoyoy Villame, were the muslim tribes are living, before the colonization, but by bringing Magellan to the Christianity, and introduce to the some tribes, and all was change, Little by little Magellan trying to tell all the tribes that there is only one savior except Jesus Christ. And the small battle was start against to tribes, and now, this was the start of the big arguments of to religions. Now, I want to say for PEACE to every one, I believe that there is one God Before us human, “Allah” Yahweh and the God has no name is just the same. We will stop fighting because I believe that is not the key to achieve what we want to achieve in life. I will left this sayings to you “Peace cannot be kept by force, it can only be achieved by understanding”- Albert Einstein

2. If you were going to die at midnight, what would you be doing at 11:45pm?

If I die at mid night, I would rather do at 11:45pm is, I will pray,

Dear lord,

            First of all, I will thank you for the gift of life. Thank you for the strength for the everyday trials. Thank you also for the people around me specially to my family that always support and help me even if I am in the worst thing of my life. Even I made mistakes at many times they are always there help me and guide me to the right path. To my friends always help me, also my love ones that always love me. Father God, protect them and guide there path in life to achieve what they want to achieve. Lord God, sorry for the bad deeds to this world, Specially to those I hurt so much. Father, as I end my chapter of my life in this world may you accept me to your kingdom and forgive me for all my sins. Father God, I am not accomplish my mission here in this world to be the good man but I accepted you with all my hearts, spirit, and soul, forgive me and help me. My family guide them, protect them from any fear. I believe that you’re here guiding me and protect, and please lord do not live me until I die amen.

3. How do you really KNOW anything for sure?

                 The anything that for sure I know was there two persons in this world, bad people and good people, no matter they have different religion, Islam, Hinduism, budhism and Christianism. We considered also the cultured that they have. Bad people are those doing nonsense, also they are selfish doing things with their own good, doing bad things that could destroy the economy, beliefs and even personal life. I there to say that bad people will go to hell, if they couldn’t forgive and feel sorry to the people that they hurt so much. “God forgive if you know how to forgive”. Good people are those people have good faith, loving, caring, and concerned to others. Good people knows how to forgive and accept mistakes. If the people coordinates with good quality people, you will not feel dought, fear and worried because of the people you meet. Good people has great chance to enter the kingdom of the lord because of his open heart and close relationship to God. Good people have all the right feelings, have the good characters in life trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, and a lot more. Bad people and good people are made by God, bad people made for them to change while good people are the guide to bad people to them to one Gods hand.

4. If you had all the money in the world but still had to have some kind of job, what would you choose to do?

              If I have all the money in the world but still had to have some kind of job, I choose to give some amount to my family at least, I will help them in life and paid what the give me. Also give my some amount of my money the any charity, for them to give  some financial assistance to any children in the charity and also help my younger brothers for there studies. By assisting them any financial they need. I prefer also to buy some lots to plant any crops such us coconut, rice and so much more, and also to my dream house to my family. Some of my money will save to bank for any emergency I need. Also if I have the opportunity I will build a subdivision for houses for the poor, I f they don’t have house, I prioritize to help the poor for them to start the new life, because the Philippines has the biggest population growth of the poor, people have to have an assistant of life because only Pilipino people can help to one another. Money don’t count if you help poor people, because money is just a paper but the love you give those people has no change and God knows it for sure.

5.When you’re 90 years old, what will matter most to you?

                 If I will become 90 years old, first, giving myself comfort because 90 years is not an easy age, so, I will give time to myself to relax take the big breath for the ending of my  chapter  in life is coming. So, as my age of 90 years old is very dangerous age, and critical age, I preferably decide to meet all my children for the last, maybe, an family reunion, going with there sons and daughters and wife or husband. Also I will divide properly all my lands or all of my properties to my sons and even daughters for them not to quarrel and misunderstanding soon. And the most important was my relationship between me and God. I will always go to church and pray, I will give full attention to him by praying every day and every night. Asking sorry for what I have done either good or bad. I cannot do any task which heavy because I have no enough strength to do the thing. So, I prepare to sit down watching the beauty of God creations, and wait until he get me in peace of mine with my body, spirit, and soul.

6.What do you regret most so far in life?

             I regret so far in my life was not make proper treatment to my brother. The things  behind of this was the attention given by the parents specially my mother. I can make little quarrel and fighting to my younger brothers because of the treatment of my mother to his sons. My mother said that she love us both, but even she says that to us, I feel something different that there is special treatment with one of brother. So I will become at him, and the fact that, after we fight even if that was my brother my mother will go beside to him so I felt sad of the equality of treatment between us. But I regret because the more I act those things the more my younger brother not respect me or understand me. So, prefer to stop doing like those things I will make to move on before it will become worst.  

 7.  How can you apply the lesson you learned from that regret to your life today?

             As I apply the lesson I learned from that regret to my life today was proper disciplinary action to my younger brothers. Because there are saying that “ kung ano ang itinanim yun din ang aanihin” So, I will show to them that I love them, as there brother because we have the same parents, the same blood, and the same flesh. I want to show to them that I respect them us they respect laso me. So that also my mother treat us equally. My mother has external and internal love to us her children he love us so much so I love my younger brother too. 

8. What would you change if were told with 100% certainly  that God does not exist? Or if you don’t believe in God, that he exist?

                 Yes, God exist, and I believe on him, I believe that God is the superior being, the creator, and his son Jesus Christ, setting down on his right hand. In genesis I’ve read all his creations from the earth to man. God exist and is always here beside us, we can’t see him but we can feel or I can feel it. besides his son Jesus Christ is the way of life going to the kingdom of the father. Starts from the story of  Abraham “ The Father of all Nation”, moses the warriors of the lord who save the Hebrew in the igypt, until to Jesus Christ which is the way of life. God and his son is really exist. Jesus Christ promise that he will come back to judge the living and the dead. After all of his promise I feel that his promise will come because of the calamities, the changes and the un predictable happening on earth. I will never turn back with Jesus Christ so I love him so much because he is our savior, I believe in God the Father the Son and the holy spirit amen.

9. If you lost everything tomorrow, whose arms would you want to run into? Does the person know how they mean to you?

                 If I lost everything tomorrow, whose arms would I want to run into is my parents. Parents are the person who made by the love they brought of them, After 9 months, I become a baby after how many months in the womb of my mother. My first teacher is my parents teaching me what is good and what is bad person or personality. Also parents are the first guidance councilor, listening to your words, giving advice to me and help me to enlighten my mind to the real world. Parents are the guardians my savior, they protect me from any danger when I was 7 years old because of my weakness or fear and also when I was a baby there are always protect me from any harmful things and harmful person because they don’t want me to Have disease from the other. My parents is the giver of money when I am entering to school since when I’m kinder garden until I’m in college right now. Parents are the most important person in the society, there are the builders of the new nation, if there is no parents or shall we there will be no to become parents maybe we are all not here and no nation to  be build.

10. Do you fear death? If so, do you have a good reason?

                 I believe in death, and I believe that all of us die. Let’s go back to the story of death. When Eve betrayed the command of God, not to eat the forbidden fruits and share it to Adam, the death come in every creation, all creations, plants animals, and worst was the human. Others says if Eve didn’t eat the forbidden fruits there is no dying at all. But God know everything, and do anything, God made the forbidden fruits to test the two first person living in the garden of Eden or to the earth. I believe that if you fulfill your task in earth God will get you in the matter of death because death is the separation of spirit to the body of human is just the same with the animals.  Sooner or we are all dead by any of the circumstances happened in our life, just like accident, calamities or even disease. Even the fetus inside the womb of the mother would probably die. Even Jesus died, because he followed the rule of the earth. This place is just temporary and we all die, I never fear death because it will come on me, it’s up to the person to accept what is the reality.

11. What would you change if you knew you were never going to die?

                    I would rather change if I know that I will never going to die is the natural eco system of our country and strongly implement or amend the rules and laws of the natural and ecosystem of our land. First of all, Philippines have the largest land area which is natural, rain forest, land formation, and producer of raw materials. But the fact is happening right now is abusive, because they import even the sand came from the seashore and sell it to the other country by back door system, also they cut even the smallest tree to sell in the lumber, and burning the forest to build subdivision by any commercial project of government or private sectors. I want to suffer strong penalty to those who commit those illegal activities in relation to natural habitat of our land and ecosystem, I want the death penalty. And for the recovery of our land I want to make activity in title “National tree planting activities” in every region of the Philippines. Every region must plant 5 million seedlings and take good care of it until it well grow big and big. Taking good care of our natural land and ecosystem is just taking good care of every one of us.

12. If you were at heaven’s gates, and God asked “you why should I let you in”? What would you say?

              I would rather say God I am sinner in this world but the faith with in my heart is saying only one God, God the provider, God the creator and God the power. I make to say sorry to all I have than on earth and I confess all the bad doings I’ve ever done on this world. Lord I want you to accept me, of whom I am and please allow me to enter your kingdom for I am probably clean for all my sins. Lord, my deepest sympathy to you your forgiveness, the chapter of my life in this world was ended and now hoping to allow me to enter your kingdom. I am the man who follows your words and commandments but not all of it because I’m not perfect but I’m trying my best to follow all your rules when I was on the earth. Lord, I felt your presence beside me and you are not living me alone, Lord I never denied you even if I have the confusion of religion but my heart is always saying that you are the God the Father together with your son Jesus Christ with the angels, Please accept me and allow to enter your kingdom.

13. When will you be good enough for you? Is there some breaking point where you will accept everything about yourself?

                       The Breaking point of accept everything about myself when the time that I have an open heart and mind accept everything facts and truth at me. I should say all people are not perfect of their doings also, and I accept it with open heart and mind. It is good enough for me to accept what are their opinions to me because this only I can know of who I am. In fact I know myself but not at all times, because the persons who are around me are considered as my mirror in life. I will never feel sad or mad when says anything to me because that’s me, there somebody concerning me, If am I doing good or bad. Every person has the different character it’s up to them to accept it, but for me it is very ok, because it will help me to change it if it is bad or maintain if it is good. Suggestions, opinions, and comments of  any individuals are just a few reminders that we are not alone in this world we are build with different people who are watching us observing it is just a matter of acceptance of who we and what we are.

14. Is the country you live in really the best fit for you?

                 Yes, Philippines are the place where I belong. This place where I born and see the real world. First, I belong as a citizen of the Philippines because of course I am Pilipino, I know the dialect, and the culture of Pilipino. The food we it, I know I am fanatic with foreign foods but I am always looking for the Pilipino styles and Pilipino foods, because it was in taste and mind that we are not comfortable if could not eat pinoy foods. A one forth of my blood was bagobo, half is boholano and one forth is Cebuano, which that’s me. I am expressing the culture where I belong; I am saying that I am totally belong to this country because I have it, mixing with the different tribes, I would rather say that if you have the blood of bagobo, boholano, Cebuano mandaya, kaulo, and many more you are totally Filipino. This is my country the place that I could not forget because of the happiness and even sadness happening in my life here. The land of promise, the land of Cultures, tribes, naturals and all habitants was here in Philippines, I love Philippines because they protect me and love me as I am belong to this country, and I should say it’s more fun in the Philippines.

15. What would people say about you at your funeral?

                The people says to my funeral was being good person when I was still living on this earth. This is maybe the fact because as of my observation when there is funeral, there always talking with the relatives the good side of the person who was dead. Maybe the achievements I got when I was alive. Always relatives always saying well to me, so that the bad things I committed will be vanished and not to remember anymore. The body is just only dead but the soul was only separated to the body and always observing their relatives. So, it’s a matter fact my soul know what there are talking about. Also they will talk about the cause of death. Asking to the relatives that, what happen to me, why I am dead. Also the procedures of my burial. They will talking about the process of burial me, also where cemetery they will burial me, and the budget for the burial. Some other, just like Barangay is making a group of people who are helping one another for the burial. In connection with this, they also talking about what generation where I came from and who is my mother and who is my father. To connect with the tree of family name they will trace my father and my grandfather so that I will be the part of the generation even I am die. There so many things to talk when the person is dead.

16. What a small thing could you do to make someone’s day better?

         The small thing I do to make someone’s day better is I will going to give  him/her comfort bring him/her to the silent place and ask him/her question states that, “what is the problem can you share it with me”? That question leads him/her to express his/her feelings of what he/she brings to his/her heart. I will listen to his/her problems and understand him/her. The only to express his/her feelings if somebody listen you do not interrupt you. After he/she talked all his/her problem, I will going to give him/her advice that could be fit with his/her problem let him/her think what is to do and not. After giving him/her advice, I will comfort him/her by making him/her happy, making him/her laugh so that the problem that he/she felt will be forgotten and it will be change with happiness and joy, and telling him/her that you are not alone in this world, I am here with you to make you happy. That was only the small thing I could give to the person who got hurt and feel sad to his/her life.

17. (If you believe in God) would your relationship with God change it all if you were told with 100% certainty that he was actually she?

                Believing of God doesn’t matter if he is a boy or she is a girl, the only thing is that the God that we believe is the savior the forgiver and the giver of life. Actually I don’t if he is a girl because as the scripture said that Mama Mary and Mary was conceive by the holy spirit and show up the son of God and the savior of life. Through Mama Mary and Jesus Christ we all save to all of our sins. So I rather say that God is a Boy. And we will talk about the family. Family consist of father, mother, and children and the great or superior in the family was the father, and not a mother.  In the scripture John 3:16 says that “For God so loved the world that he gave his begotten son, that whoever believe in him should not be perish but have the everlasting life” (He gave his), this just a manifestation that God is a boy and not girl. Why some people argued that and says that he is girl is the matter of fact they also says the God the father the son and the Holy Spirit amen.

   18. What do you believe stands between you and complete happiness?

                  Complete happiness are the person who has no problems, they never feel sad or worried. Complete happiness is just a matter of weird and disgusting. Complete happiness is somewhat, Problem also to the society or to the world. Why? Now, Complete happiness who has no problem, it says that you are weird and terrible because I don’t even no person who has no problem even a infant has a problem to go out to the whom of his mother. Also the person who are rich, they don’t ever happy always because of there being rich. And I don’t belong to that complete happiness, happiness is just matter of always happy of all the times, for me I am trying to balance the situation sometimes happy and sometimes sad. I am trying to balance myself for them not to think that I am weird person. Happiness is in me but not complete happiness because I believe that the more you happy the more you sad very sad.

19. What’s the one thing I’d like, others remember about me at the end of my life?

                 I want them to remember that I love them so much starts from  my family, love ones and friends, for all the things that I do to them. Also that I am the source of water when I was in high school level, the reason? Because every time before I will go to my classroom is I will go first to the house of my principal to open the going to the school every day. The water that I will turn on to the house of the principal is the source of all the entire school starts from drinking water, up to comfort room and so much more. I never forget that and I am proud to say that. Also I want them to remember that when I was studying at Cor jesu Collge I am belong to the man of sound system because if there is no sound system there is no person who operating it there is no program happened. Any starts from institutional or even normal we are always there assisting all admin, faculty, staff, and the students. I am 4 years student assistant, and I am very proud of that if others do not. It’s just the simple thing I want you to remember me as a person.

20. Would I break the law to save a loved one?

           Yes, the best example is my mother, my mother has the problem with my father, because my father is playboy, so, If my mother will hurt not her heart but in physical, I don’t know what will I do to my father I cannot promise. Even If they says that I respect my father for he is the head of the family, I don’t think so if he is responsible for that, actually my mother has all in one responsibility to the family, the head of the family, the guidance councilor and even guardian of the family. I cannot promise not to break the law if my loved once will hurt so much. I never believe to my father because of what he did and did again and again, if I will catch him to the actual bringing another girl I don’t know what to say and do to him. Because he disrespect the love that my mother give him the love that is long last tell death to part. I never allow him so much hurt my mother I promise that to myself. I loved my mother, he give us life to stand our own starts we are baby until right now, she is always there beside me I love you mom.    

Melmar B. Bustamante